Asshole: How I got Rich and Happy by Not Giving damn About You

我想看这本书 买不到 也下不到点子书  55555

 

要过一个充实的暑假-----不管别人做什么，要把自己的事情做好

好期待暑假啊

（现在觉得在MSN上写东西很亲切 在XIAONEI上的话太多人看见 ）

首先呢，期待我的上海苏州杭州之行，恩恩，这次和一个我没见过的女生一起玩 哈 有点悬。她是韩同学的女朋友啦，我们在上海见面，有个小问题是，她从北京走的火车比我从西安的要早到3个小时呢。我们计划在上海呆3天，苏州呆一天吧（我好期待在苏州见到我亲爱鲍鲍），完后去杭州呆3，4天。看CHINA DAILY的手机报说OBAMA7月19要去上海，如果真是那样的话我好像改改行程。关键我21号要赶回来上雅思。这就是暑期第2件事啦，恩恩，我在环球雅思报了个6.5高分班，要认真学习，不能旷课哦。 最后呢，昨天才决定在，在健身房办张暑期卡，我要逼自己运动了，唉，胖了不少。

 恩恩 就这样。

 

  i didn't plan to make my new year resolution but my friend just asked me if i did that.

 

well,the reason why i didn't want to do it was that i don't think i have the nuts to challange life now. i 'm not brave now,not any more.i'm barveless and so lost.

fortunatly,after talking to my friends,the mature ones,i 'm really changed.i mean,wot i am going to do,wot my life is heading for and wot i really should do.i am now,pretty clear,wot is right and wrong.

   i need to be brave and work hard.

 

here's the sentences most inspiring and meaningful quoted by my friend

 

you are good, and smart, and life is simply very hard.it's really as simple as that.  Life inherently has challenges, and difficulties.

even when you are disappointed, you must keep working hard.
then, when you don't even expect it, some wonderful advancement will occur to make you feel like your life has value and that your goals are being realized

isten, this is life.  rather than feeling sad or disappointed, just realize that all of us have to endure this.
rjrefined 说:
and the ones that ultimately succeed are those who figure it out, ignore the disappointment, and then keep moving forward.  Then, all of a sudden, whatever means "success" for you will occur.

you can play too, but then you must pay the price--work very hard as well.

let me share something with you, it's very important, OK?
Here is the key.
If you were a young woman, who, on New Year's day, was NOT feeling sad because she was happy with her life, they I would say just play.  Just have a good time.  But, you are reflective, thinking of your life, and so that is telling you that you want to accomplish more.
If you were comfortable with your life, and not sad, and you asked me "Richard, should I work harder", I might not say this.  But since you want more, than the answer is that you really do need to work harder.
otherwise, next year, you will feel bad again.
your inner core is telling you that you want more.
so sure, you can have fun with your friends, but also, you should focus on accomplishing your goals.
and I can tell you this--most of these friends will NOT be in your life 5 or 10 years form now.(wot do u mean?   =people move on.  MOve to different cities.  get married and have lives, etc)

i think my promble is the attitude(charlene says)
yes, but at least you seem to realize that.  You know you have an issue here.you need to work a little harder.  But doing nothing to improve is not healthy, since YOU want to improve

i will wirte about my new year resolution tomorow

 

 

我还是向MSN SPACE屈服了.SAY GOODBYE TO 我的BAIDU BLOG了.
 原因1,是我的MSN SPACE上有太多的朋友了,是我的整个生活.而BAIDU也太清静了把.可能是我没怎么宣传,所以访问很少.不像MSN 有个MESSENGER.更新大家都能看见
.      2不管我找什么书啊什么的,总能在别人的MSN 空间上找到,又让我登录什么的.最近一直想看Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either  ,在许多人MSN SPCAE上看到不少评论.可惜就是找不到EBOOK可以看.
       3,虽然我在用BAIDU,但还是要来看看朋友的新境况,麻烦.我哥还要我去看他上 MSN去布拉格的照片呢.我一会也上传我CHRISTMAS EVE狂欢的照片.
       4,还有些原因省去了

       虽然MSN无比的慢,不简洁,我还决定继续用拉

 

recently i've been working in a travel agency in xi'an,China,and i do learn a lot from it.

  i could still remeber my first day of the intership,i  was introduced to other stafff of the agency by the manager,and they are very kind and kindly smiled to me.up to now,they 've always been kind to me.so there has been no problem of personl relatioship bothers me so far.that's great.

  i realized how ignorant of me and learnd many new things in my first day.i didn't know how to fax,that's really a serious ignorance.many of the work in travel agency is to fax and receive ur schedule to custmors and other agecny,and it is really very intersting to do the fax stuff,i still enjoy it now.

  second ,i think,is to remeber all the name of ur work mate,at first ,i answeredcalls,they wanna get into someone,the terrible ploblem occurs when u don't know who they are,and ask other ppl who's the ***,that's horrible. i really suck at remebering ppl's name.so it was really embarassing when totally  had noidea of whether the one wanted in the phone is in the office.

 third thing is,the way u call ur workmate.all the ppl work here is older than me or seemed quite experienced,seems u can't  call their name,u should add "jie" before thier name,that means sister,to show respect.that's so uncomfortable.

i could't get use to it .when i answered  the phone,they wannated for ,for example,Li yuan,but when i informed her of that,i should shout like this,Li jie.

  last one,the basic computer skill.i was aksed to type sth ,but i don't know how to change it to specific form they asked.then i finally realize there is still too manys things i havne't master.

  

昨天晚上跟朋友的家人一起去了一个ＢＡＲ，ＪＡＺＺ的风格，其实这才是真正的ＢＡＲ，ＰＵＢ，不是莎莎类似的ＤＩＳＣＯ，朋友们在里面可以尽情的聊天，不会很ＮＯＩＳＹ．最主要的是自己还练习了很久未碰的台球，还认了个很强的师傅．自己一向很笨在台球方面，这张是我跟家人Ｎ年前打的照片，ＰＳ，我拿黄求练习呢，呵呵．

　　　由于ＢＡＲ主人是美国人，ＢＡＲ内很有外国风味．这才是美国真正的卡拉ＯＫ，演唱者是在公开场合内唱，不是像中国或日韩在包箱内，所以能上去唱的人大多很强，至少很勇敢，要不整个酒吧的人．．．．　　　

　　　　这种ＢＡＲ虽然不是ＤＩＳＣＯ那种疯狂，但挺有　感觉的，适合几个朋友过来聊天．但如果不跟家长去晚上怎么回去是个问题．．．．

i'm tired of chatting with ppl who i barely know on line,so boring.

these days i found myself are not so eagerly to open my Msn account,instead i 'll log in QQ account first,or most of the time ,open my gmail first,hehe.gmail is my priority now.lol,ironically,why i go to gmail so eagerly these days? also to chat with someone i barely know in the reality.but at least we met each other before.

   i once hoped to meet someone who is really nice on the internet,but the wot's the odds? too tiny.

   now i don't wanna talk with my on line friends ,esp those i havne't met in person,those on msn.most of the times,i jsut say hello to each other and then how  r u ,then what have u been,they cool,then and u?  things like that.that is really boring and a waste of time.

   sth happened yesterday,traffic accident,and i was involved.almost got injured or could die.i was on our school bus,on a crossing,there's got a truck that was kind of lose control,hit our bus,and right at my direction,right at where i sat,oh my god,fortunatly,the hit was not strong,the bus was only kind of scratched,and i was safe.everthing happened so qucikly,and i was looking at the truck hitting us ,felt like i was dreaming,kind of numb.the girl sat behind me was really shocked and frightened,but i was okey,totally okey.i don't know why i was so calm,seemed it had nothing to do with  me,so numb.yea,i've been numb these days.

like the song of linkin part i become so numb,all i want to do is become more of me,and less of u

.

followed is the song recenly i love so much  "where's u go",here's some lyrics

 

where'd u go? i miss u so.seems like it's been forever that u been gone...,plz come back home...

                                         

今天跟家人去看房子，还好研究建筑学的专家一起去，要不必定被售楼小姐骗掺了．

本来爸爸要买的那套房是二号楼，１８层，邻马路．那售楼小姐声称那房产在交大科技园区，将来就成校区的一部分．那干道不会有多么大的噪音．可恰巧这位专家刚好是设计交大科技园的，说那条是城市干道，虽然现在不繁华可，城市的发展是很快的，３－５年后就不会像现在这样．这房产更不会成为校区的一部分．而且越往高障碍物越少声音更啊，公共汽车的站牌报站都可能听到．　高层其实９层后小区内的园景就看不真实了，往高反而欣赏不到好的景色．最好可以是４－９层间，而且价钱也相对便宜．她看好二期的房子，说靠近绿化带，而且邻近交大科技中小学，那的楼房是不会再加盖，这样视线好．

　　我觉得园林规划，建筑等真的太有趣拉，太神气了．但好像学的时候也好辛苦的．

以后大家还是注意点，不要光听售楼小姐胡讲．

这学期第一次跟同学一块去游泳,还是感觉不错拉,比跟大人们去好的多,虽然今天天气凉爽,可能不适合把,呵呵

 

 

I kept swimming,kept swimming.swimming,swimming

to exhausted,to let me get things more clearly,to see myself more clearly.

 

 

 

i just found that the american girl i 've been talking with is bisexual,oh my god,that's weird .no wonder she's sent me her naked pic before.

i used think she's a nice girl,never thought a girl to be bisexual.maybe in the past all i heard of are some biseual boys .and she said she's been making out with girl 3 times before.and took naked pics.

lol,michel said i should buy much rotten fruit nd throw it at gay chinese guys.,and also rotten eggs.that's funny
  i used to think i'm fine with  gay things or lesbian things ,we should not look upon them.not until now i realize it's still not easy to accept that. i don't wanna tlak with her again.