i didn't plan to make my new year resolution but my friend just asked me if i did that.

 

well,the reason why i didn't want to do it was that i don't think i have the nuts to challange life now. i 'm not brave now,not any more.i'm barveless and so lost.

fortunatly,after talking to my friends,the mature ones,i 'm really changed.i mean,wot i am going to do,wot my life is heading for and wot i really should do.i am now,pretty clear,wot is right and wrong.

   i need to be brave and work hard.

 

here's the sentences most inspiring and meaningful quoted by my friend

 

you are good, and smart, and life is simply very hard.it's really as simple as that.  Life inherently has challenges, and difficulties.

even when you are disappointed, you must keep working hard.
then, when you don't even expect it, some wonderful advancement will occur to make you feel like your life has value and that your goals are being realized

isten, this is life.  rather than feeling sad or disappointed, just realize that all of us have to endure this.
rjrefined 说:
and the ones that ultimately succeed are those who figure it out, ignore the disappointment, and then keep moving forward.  Then, all of a sudden, whatever means "success" for you will occur.

you can play too, but then you must pay the price--work very hard as well.

let me share something with you, it's very important, OK?
Here is the key.
If you were a young woman, who, on New Year's day, was NOT feeling sad because she was happy with her life, they I would say just play.  Just have a good time.  But, you are reflective, thinking of your life, and so that is telling you that you want to accomplish more.
If you were comfortable with your life, and not sad, and you asked me "Richard, should I work harder", I might not say this.  But since you want more, than the answer is that you really do need to work harder.
otherwise, next year, you will feel bad again.
your inner core is telling you that you want more.
so sure, you can have fun with your friends, but also, you should focus on accomplishing your goals.
and I can tell you this--most of these friends will NOT be in your life 5 or 10 years form now.(wot do u mean?   =people move on.  MOve to different cities.  get married and have lives, etc)

i think my promble is the attitude(charlene says)
yes, but at least you seem to realize that.  You know you have an issue here.you need to work a little harder.  But doing nothing to improve is not healthy, since YOU want to improve

i will wirte about my new year resolution tomorow

 

 

我还是向MSN SPACE屈服了.SAY GOODBYE TO 我的BAIDU BLOG了.
 原因1,是我的MSN SPACE上有太多的朋友了,是我的整个生活.而BAIDU也太清静了把.可能是我没怎么宣传,所以访问很少.不像MSN 有个MESSENGER.更新大家都能看见
.      2不管我找什么书啊什么的,总能在别人的MSN 空间上找到,又让我登录什么的.最近一直想看Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either  ,在许多人MSN SPCAE上看到不少评论.可惜就是找不到EBOOK可以看.
       3,虽然我在用BAIDU,但还是要来看看朋友的新境况,麻烦.我哥还要我去看他上 MSN去布拉格的照片呢.我一会也上传我CHRISTMAS EVE狂欢的照片.
       4,还有些原因省去了

       虽然MSN无比的慢,不简洁,我还决定继续用拉